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What are the risks of having a baby if I’m 35 or older?

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The biggest obstacle for women age 35 or older may be getting pregnant in the first place. Fertility rates begin to decline gradually at age 30, more so at 35, and markedly at age 40. Even with fertility treatments such as in vitro fertilization, women have more difficulty getting pregnant as they age.

Women 45 and older rarely get pregnant, even with fertility treatment. Fertility specialists routinely recommend oocyte donation (IVF with eggs donated by a young egg donor) for these women because pregnancies with their own eggs are so rare.

Women also have more trouble staying pregnant as they get older: The rates of miscarriage and ectopic pregnancy go up substantially with age.

Infertility evaluation is generally recommended for women who have been trying for 12 months or longer. But if you’re 35 or older, don’t wait a whole year. Get an evaluation after six months, or sooner if you suspect that something may not be right – such as if your periods aren’t regular, or if you’ve had previous abdominal surgery.

Once you conceive, and you get past the first trimester miscarriages, you face a higher risk of conceiving a baby with a chromosomal problem. This risk goes up every year. If you get pregnant at age 25, your risk of having a baby with Down syndrome, for example, is about 1 in 1,250, according to the National Institutes of Health. At age 40, the risk is 1 in 100.

Having a baby if I’m 35

If you’ll be 35 or older on your due date, you’ll be offered genetic counseling. This is normally done by your obstetrician after you show up pregnant, but increasingly, couples are opting for “pre-conceptual counseling” – an opportunity to plan ahead and get information before getting pregnant.

A genetic counselor can help you understand your particular risks and decide whether to have genetic testing to screen for or diagnose chromosomal problems or other birth defects. Keep in mind that every woman has a chance of having a baby with problems, no matter what her age.

Even after you get pregnant, age continues to have an effect. The older you are when you get pregnant, the more likely you are to have a chronic disease, such as high blood pressure or diabetes, that may be undiagnosed and can affect your pregnancy.

You’re also at higher risk of developing certain complications during pregnancy – such as gestational diabetes, preeclampsia, placental abruption (in which the placenta prematurely separates from the uterine wall), and placenta previa (in which the placenta lies low in the uterus, partly or completely covering the cervix).

Research also shows that your chances of having a low-birth-weight baby (less than 5 1/2 pounds) or a premature delivery increase with age. Some studies show that older women are more likely to need pitocin during labor, and most studies show a significantly higher rate of delivery by cesarean section.

All of that sounds scary, but population studies don’t take into account whether or not the moms took good care of themselves or if they received appropriate prenatal care. Make sure you do both of those, and your chance of having a healthy baby should be similar to that of younger women who are also in good health.

Women who give birth at 35 or older have a higher risk of stillbirth and maternal death (although the overall number of stillbirths and women who die in childbirth each year has dropped significantly in the United States in the last few decades). The increased risk is largely due to underlying medical problems more common in older women. Proper diagnosis and treatment will help reduce the risks for you and your baby.

If you’re considering getting pregnant, see your doctor or midwife for a thorough examination. Your provider will take a detailed medical and family history of both prospective parents to identify conditions that might affect your pregnancy or your chances of getting pregnant. You can manage many of the risks of pregnancy at age 35 and up by seeing your doctor or midwife regularly for good prenatal care.

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Age and fertility: Getting pregnant in your 20s

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If you’re trying to get pregnant in your 20s, time is on your side – and biology is, too. Your body is ready for pregnancy, and probably will be for a while if you decide to wait to start your family.

That said, pregnancy at any age has advantages and disadvantages. We checked in with fertility specialists, financial consultants, relationship gurus, and 20-something moms to get a realistic picture of what it’s like to have a child in your 20s.

Pros

Experts say the average woman’s fertility peaks in her early 20s. So from a strictly biological perspective, this is the best decade for conceiving and carrying a baby.

Like every woman, you’re born with all the eggs you will ever have: about 1 to 2 million. By puberty, your eggs number about 300,000 to 500,000, but your ovaries release only about 300 during your reproductive years.

As you get older, your ovaries age along with the rest of your body and the quality of your eggs gradually deteriorates. That’s why a younger woman’s eggs are less likely than an older woman’s to have genetic abnormalities that cause Down syndrome and other birth defects.

The risk of miscarriage is also far lower: It’s about 10 percent for women in their 20s, 12 percent for women in their early 30s, and 18 percent for women in their mid to late 30s. Miscarriage risk jumps to about 34 percent for women in their early 40s, and 53 percent by age 45.

Pregnancy is often physically easier for women in their 20s because there’s a lower risk of health complications like high blood pressure and diabetes. You’re also less likely to have gynecological problems, like uterine fibroids, which often become more problematic over time.

Finally, younger women are less likely to have premature or low-birth-weight babies than women older than 35.

In terms of fertility, it doesn’t matter if you start trying to get pregnant in your early 20s or your late 20s, according to Judith Albert, a reproductive endocrinologist and scientific director of Reproductive Health Specialists, a fertility center in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. “The difference in a woman’s fertility in her early and late 20s is negligible,” she says.

Once the baby comes, as a 20-something mom you’re likely to have the resilience to wake up with the baby several times during night and still be able to function the next day. You’ll also have a lot of company as you chase your little one around the playground: The average American woman has her first child around age 26. And when your own child has children of her own, odds are you’ll still have the energy to be an actively involved grandparent.

Besides the physical advantages, there are other pluses: “You’re more flexible in your 20s, which is good for your marriage and for the transition to parenthood,” says Mother, a family and marriage therapist. When people get married later in life, instead of “our way,” there is often “my way” and “your way,” which can make marriage and parenting difficult, she says.

Cons

When you’re in your 20s, you may still be figuring out a career path and establishing yourself professionally. If you take time out to have a baby, it can be hard to get back on track.

In her book The Price of Motherhood, coined the term “mommy tax” to describe the economic toll motherhood takes on a woman’s earning potential over the course of a lifetime. Even if a woman goes right back to work after having children, statistically she’ll earn significantly less than her childless counterparts.

That can be a powerful incentive for some women to delay pregnancy, mother says: “Women who have their children later in life have higher lifetime earnings and a wider range of opportunities than younger mothers.”

And having a child in your 20s may not be financially optimal. “My younger clients in their 20s and early 30s have a lot of debt,” says financial adviser. “College loan debt is such a problem for young people today – it’s a noose around their necks. And as they struggle to pay it off, it’s very easy to slide into credit card debt.”

“Young people often don’t have the life experience to realize that the early period of life with a new baby is only temporary,” mom observes. “The young mother is likely to feel depressed and overwhelmed, and the father may feel abandoned by his wife, who is suddenly preoccupied with the new little being in her life. Ideally, a couple will support each other through this transition and become even closer, but many couples grow distant and alienated from each other, which can seriously damage the marriage.”

And many couples in their 20s are simply not ready to be parents, says Seidler. Raising children is emotionally and physically taxing, and many parents – especially young ones – aren’t completely prepared for the sacrifice and patience it requires.

An experienced confirms that parenting ability evolves with age. She had one child in her 20s, three in her 30s, and one at 41. As a 20-year-old mom, she says, she lacked some of the wisdom and perspective she has today. “When you have kids when you’re older, you’re more willing to accept the changes that come with having a child. You may miss out on traveling or shopping with your girlfriends, but I don’t think you mind as much as you do in your 20s.”

Your odds of success

In your 20s, the stats are on your side. As a healthy, fertile woman in your mid 20s, you have about a 33 percent chance of getting pregnant each cycle if you have sex a day or two before ovulation. At age 30, your chance is about 20 percent each cycle.

Only a small percentage of 20-year-old women struggle with infertility – whereas two-thirds of women over 40 have infertility problems. A 20-year-old woman has only a 6 percent chance of being unable to conceive, while a 40-year-old has a 64 percent chance.

As for other risks, at age 20, the risk of conceiving a child with Down syndrome is one in 2,000. That risk jumps to one in 900 when you’re 30, and one in 100 when you’re 40.

What to do if you want to get pregnant now

To give yourself the best chance for a normal pregnancy and a healthy baby, consider taking a few important steps before trying to conceive. Read these tips to help you prepare for pregnancy.

If you don’t get pregnant right away, just keep trying for now. It’s likely your healthcare provider will advise you to wait until you have had frequent (about two or three times a week) unprotected sex for a year without becoming pregnant before referring you to a fertility specialist.

But if there are reasons you may have trouble getting pregnant, such as a history of missed periods or sexually transmitted diseases, you may want to consult a fertility expert sooner.

What to do if you want to wait to get pregnant

If you’d like to have children someday but you’re not ready right now, you may want to look into freezing your eggs. Although your chances for a healthy pregnancy decline in your late 30s and 40s, your odds of success with assisted reproductive technology are much better with younger eggs. Some women are banking their eggs now in case they have difficulty conceiving when they’re older.

For more on age and fertility, read our articles on getting pregnant in your 30s and 40s. Plus, check out the preconception and birth stories of six women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s.

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Getting pregnant in your 30s

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As you enter your 30s, your chances of getting pregnant are high – about 1 in 4 women in their early 30s will get pregnant during one given cycle. As you get closer to 40, it’s biologically more difficult to get pregnant and you may have a higher risk of miscarriage, chromosomal issues, and other pregnancy complications. But most women in their 30s will get pregnant with little trouble. If you’re ready to get pregnant, there are plenty of ways to boost your fertility and have a healthy pregnancy. 

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Why more women are getting pregnant in their 30s

For many decades, women between the ages of 25 and 29 had the highest birth rate. But in a 2016 research study, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) found that for the first time ever, women in their 30s were having more babies than women in their 20s. A separate 2018 study revealed that the average age for first-time mothers has gone up from 21 in the 1970s to 26 (and from 27 to 31 for male partners).

So, why are more women having babies in their 30s? There are a few main reasons.

  • Finances. The number one reason for women delaying childbearing is money, according to a 2020 survey. In fact, 60 percent of respondents wanted to have more money saved before becoming a parent; 51 percent wanted to earn a higher salary first. The cost of having a baby is high.
  • Health implications. The same 2020 survey revealed that 46 percent of respondents feared COVID-19, access to prenatal care, and the ability to afford fertility treatments if needed. On the other side of the coin, there’s also more access to reliable birth control, giving women more of a choice over when to have a child.
  • Social norms. Some women want to make sure they have stable careers or reach a certain title at their jobs before starting a family. Additionally, studies have shown that women earn up to 20 percent less than their male counterparts over the course of their careers after having children.
  • Assisted reproductive technologies (ART). Over the years (and thanks in part to social media), fertility treatment has become less taboo, and women are more aware of the options that can help them have a baby later in life (if they have the financial means to do so) such as egg freezing.

    Although your chances for a healthy pregnancy decline in your late 30s and 40s, your odds of success with assisted reproductive technology are much better with younger eggs. Some women bank their eggs sooner than they plan to have kids in case they have difficulty conceiving naturally as they get older, and want to do in vitro fertilization (IVF) down the road.

Is it harder to get pregnant in your 30s?

The short answer is maybe. A woman’s peak fertility is in her teens and 20s. At age 30, fertility slowly starts to decrease. Most women don’t have trouble early in the decade. In fact, even as you inch closer to your late 30s, your chance of getting pregnant within a year is around 65 percent. Age 37 is when fertility decreases more rapidly.

There are some risks to be aware of when it comes to getting pregnant in your 30s. But remember, you’re still very likely to get pregnant easily in your 30s, especially in your early 30s.  

Miscarriage

Miscarriage risk rises slowly during your early 30s, but around 35, things change. At age 35, you have about a 20 percent risk of miscarriage with each pregnancy. By age 40, the risk is about 40 percent, and it increases to about 80 percent by age 45. Most miscarriages are caused by abnormal chromosome numbers – either missing or extra chromosomes – the chance of this happening increases as the age of the egg (and the age of the woman) increases.

That’s because, unlike men who continue to produce sperm throughout their lives, women are born with all the eggs they’ll ever have, and with age, the quality and quantity of these eggs decreases.

As we age, women can have a harder time getting pregnant at all and a higher chance of conceiving with an abnormal egg, which could result in a miscarriage or a baby with a chromosomal abnormality such as Down syndrome. Risks of chromosome anomalies in embryos rise sharply after age 35, although the risk is is still low. At age 25, Down syndrome risk is about 1 in 1,400. At age 35, the odds are about 1 in 350; at age 40, the risk increases to 1 in 100.

Ectopic pregnancy and other health complications

Women 35 and older are also more likely than younger women to have an ectopic pregnancy and are at higher risk for complications like preeclampsia and gestational diabetes. Many more women in this age group have preexisting conditions like obesity, hypertension, and diabetes before they get pregnant.

Since chromosomal abnormalities increase as we get older, once you’re pregnant your doctor will discuss options for genetic screening of the pregnancy. Many parents want to know if their pregnancy is affected by a missing or extra chromosome (like Down syndrome). Tests offered include non-invasive testing such as cell-free fetal DNA blood testing and advanced ultrasounds.

Also available for certain high-risk women are amniocentesis and CVS. Your provider will discuss these options with you, explaining how the tests are done, their cost to you, how to interpret the results, and what the results would mean for your pregnancy. You get to decide if the tests are right for you.

Cesarean birth

Cesarean rates are also higher for women older than 35: Women this age have about a 43 percent chance of a C-section delivery compared to a roughly 30 percent chance for mothers in their 20s. Experts suspect these increased cesarean rates are caused by pregnancy problems like fetal distress or prolonged second-stage labor, which are more common for older mothers.

Multiples

Women ages 35 to 39 are slightly more likely to have twins – even without the fertility treatments that raise the odds of a multiple birth.

Typically, you release one egg a cycle. But as you get older, your follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) level increases. With a higher FSH, there’s a slightly higher chance you’ll release more than one egg during a cycle, upping the odds of a multiple birth, and in some cases, a high-risk pregnancy.

Advantages of getting pregnant in your 30s

Though it’s easier biologically to have a baby in your 20s, there are plenty of upsides to having your first baby or growing your family in your 30s. You likely have your own personal reasons for why you want to get pregnant now, but here are some potential benefits:

  • You may have a higher income and more financial security because you’ve had more time to establish your career. 
  • Studies have found that women who became first-time moms at or after age 33 have greater odds of living to age 95 (compared to younger moms).
  • Studies have also found children of older mothers had fewer behavioral, social, and emotional problems than kids of younger mothers, and these moms resorted less to verbal or physical punishment for their kids.

How to maximize fertility in your 30s

You can’t slow down your biological clock, but you can make some healthy lifestyle choices to maximize your fertility in your 30s. Here are some tips:

Limit alcohol and caffeine

You don’t necessarily need to go cold turkey on alcohol and caffeine when trying to conceive, but it’s smart to consume both in moderation. Studies have found that heavy, long-term use of alcohol can negatively impact sperm. And remember, you might be pregnant and not find out for a few weeks, so it’s best to err on the side of caution and only drink alcohol in moderation. Studies have also found that drinking more than 300 mg of caffeine daily, the equivalent of a large cup of coffee from Starbucks, can make it harder to get pregnant too.

Eat an overall healthy diet

When you’re trying to get pregnant, lower your intake of processed foods loaded with saturated fat and up your consumption of good-for-you foods that are high in antioxidants, such as whole grains, fruits, vegetables, fish, and vegetable proteins. Eating healthy while trying to conceive will also help you maintain a healthy weight and body mass index (BMI). Studies have found that women with BMIs that were too high or too low had a harder time conceiving.

Start taking prenatal vitamins

It’s good idea for women of any age to start taking an over-the-counter prenatal vitamin at least a month before trying to get pregnant. Look for a prenatal that contains folic acid to prevent neural tube defects and iron to prevent anemia in pregnancy. Your practitioner may also recommend an additional supplement such as vitamin D or Coq10, another over-the-counter vitamin that has been shown in some studies to improve egg quality.

Get enough sleep

A study conducted by the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) found that women who had low-quality sleep had lower fertilization rates during IVF than those who got good quality sleep, in part because sleep helps balance our hormones. Plus, the more tired and stressed you are, and the less likely you may be to exercise and eat healthy. Aim for 7 to 8 hours of sleep per night to increase your chances of getting pregnant.

De-stress as needed

It’s unclear if infertility causes stress or stress causes infertility, but studies have found that women with depression are twice as likely to experience infertility.

It’s important to try and stay as relaxed as possible while TTC, whatever that means for you. Prenatal yoga, meditation, walking, getting outside, acupuncture, therapy, journaling, calling a friend, or visiting a salon are all valid and healthy ways to relax. Self-care is imperative for your mental health while trying to conceive.

Track your cycle

Your menstrual cycle could change once you hit your 30s, so you may want to track your cycle when you’re trying to get pregnant so you know the optimal time to have sex. You can use an app or old-fashioned calendar to keep track, and buy at-home ovulation predictor kits (OPKs) that measure your hormones and can help predict your fertile days.

Day 1 of your cycle is the day your period starts; for women with regular, 28-day cycles, ovulation occurs somewhere around days 12 to 14. The optimal time to have sex to get pregnant is about two days before ovulation.

Get your partner on board

Though aging doesn’t affect male fertility as much as it does female fertility, your male partner can maximize his sperm health and help you get pregnant in your 30s by exercising regularly and eating healthy foods too. It’s a good idea for him to also quit smoking, avoid spending too much time in hot tubs, and be mindful of his undies.

Some studies have found that men who wore loose-fitting boxers instead of tight briefs have better sperm count and concentration. For most men, however, it’s not necessary to change their favorite underwear. If your partner’s semen analysis shows anything abnormal though, that could be one easy thing to change.

When to see a fertility specialist about fertility issues

The general rule of thumb is if you’re younger than 35 and have had frequent (about two or three times a week) unprotected sex for a year without becoming pregnant, then it’s time to consult a fertility expert, also known as a reproductive endocrinologist (RE). These are ob-gyns with extra training in fertility.

If you’re 35 or older, see a specialist if you’ve had frequent unprotected sex for at least six months and still aren’t pregnant. And if there are reasons you may have trouble getting pregnant – such as a history of irregular or missed periods, sexually transmitted diseases, or pelvic pain – it doesn’t hurt to see an expert even sooner.

There’s no shame in seeing a reproductive endocrinologist and taking charge of your reproductive health. Infertility is common; 1 in five heterosexual couples are unable to get pregnant after a year of unprotected sex, and about 1 in four women have trouble maintaining a pregnancy (known as recurrent pregnancy loss or repeated miscarriages).

Most specialists start a fertility evaluation by doing blood tests to determine if there’s a problem with your ovaries or hormone levels, and may perform a hysterosalpingogram, or HSG, to look at your uterus and fallopian tubes. If you have a male partner, he’ll undergo a semen analysis. Your provider will advise you about your options depending on your individual circumstances and results.

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Pregnancy after 40: Here’s what to know

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About 1 in 10 women will conceive naturally after 40, while many other women in their 40s get pregnant with the help of assisted reproductive technology (ART). Like at every stage of life, deciding to try to get pregnant after 40 is a personal decision that has its own set of advantages and drawbacks: You may feel more ready and financially secure, for example, but at the same time, your chances of miscarriage, gestational diabetes, preterm birth, and other complications increase. If you’re having trouble conceiving spontaneously, a fertility specialist may be able to help.

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If you’re thinking about having a baby at 40, there’s no denying your odds of getting pregnant are significantly lower now than they were just a few years ago – about 1 in 10 women will conceive spontaneously around age 40, according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. (After 45, experts say, it’s very unlikely you’ll get pregnant using your own eggs.)

Many 40-plus women do get pregnant, some using fertility treatments and some not. Data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention actually showed that the birth rate for moms aged 40-44 rose continuously between 1985 and 2019, at an average of around 3 percent per year.

Pregnancy at any age has its advantages and disadvantages, but here’s a picture of what to expect if you’re planning to try to get pregnant at 40 or beyond.

What are my chances of pregnancy after 40?

It’s possible, but almost half of women over 40 experience fertility issues, according to the CDC. Women over 40 have about a 5 percent chance of getting pregnant in any single ovulation cycle. (That’s compared to a 25 percent chance for women in their 20s and early 30s.)

At 40, your chances of getting pregnant within a year are about 40 to 50 percent. To compare, a woman in her mid-30s has about a 75 percent chance. And by age 43, a woman’s chance of getting pregnant within a year drops significantly to only 1 or 2 percent.

Why the steep drop-off? It’s all about the eggs. When you reach puberty, your eggs number between 300,000 and 500,000, and after that you lose about 13,000 of them a year. Over the years, this steady drop in egg supply leaves you with about 25,000 eggs by age 37 – the age that also coincides with a precipitous drop in fertility. By age 43, your egg supply is near its end. Your risk of pregnancy complications, such as high blood pressure and gestational diabetes, increases after 35 as well, and continues to rise into your 40s.

Miscarriage rates begin to skyrocket in your 40s as well. At 40, the average chance of a miscarriage is about 40 percent, and that rises to around 80 percent by age 45. The same underlying mechanism that causes miscarriage (an increased risk of extra or missing chromosomes in the embryo) also increases the risk of Down syndrome: At 40, your chance of conceiving a child with Down syndrome is one in 100; at 45, it’s one in 30.

Because the increased risk for abnormal chromosome numbers increases with maternal age, experts recommend that pregnant women in their 40s be offered detailed screenings for these abnormalities. This includes non-invasive tests such as cell-free fetal DNA blood testing and advanced ultrasound. Invasive tests, such as amniocentesis or chorionic villus sampling (CVS), are also available if needed. Genetic testing is always a choice, and your OB or midwife can give you a thorough explanation of your testing options, their implications, and their costs.

Mothers over 40 also have a nearly 50 percent chance of having a c-section as a result of delivery complications. Incidents of low-birth-weight and stillborn babies are higher as well.

One very positive fact on your side: Given the range of new assisted reproductive technology (ART) methods now available, there’s no better time in history to try to get pregnant in your 40s. Although in vitro fertilization (IVF) success rates fall significantly when women use their own eggs after age 35, the chance of success using donor eggs remains high with a pregnancy rate of about 50 percent for women through their late 40s.

For women in their 40s who use eggs from a woman in her 20s or 30s, the risk of miscarriage and chromosomal abnormalities is consistent with the age of the egg donor.

An OB-GYN shares what she wishes her patients would do before getting pregnant.

Advantages of getting pregnant after 40

Every woman has her own (very good!) reasons for her family-planning timing. There may be more reasons that are personal to you that explain why you’ve decided to try to get pregnant now, but these are a few of the potential benefits of waiting to become a parent (or adding another child to your family) when you’re older:

You’re more experienced. Probably the greatest advantage of waiting to have children is that you’ve had time to grow. You may be more secure financially and more comfortable in your career. It’s possible that you and your partner, if you have one, have had the chance to get to know each other in a variety of circumstances, which can be a solid foundation for raising a family.

Some studies have also asserted that older mothers are, in general, better educated than young mothers and make wiser parenting decisions. Mothers over 30 are also slightly more likely to breastfeed, according to the CDC.

You may be more financially secure. Waiting to have children might also have financial benefits, possibly as a result of being more established in your career. One study found that women who had children in their 40s were subject to less of a motherhood “wage penalty” than those moms who had children in their 20s and 30s.

Drawbacks of getting pregnant after 40

While conception, pregnancy, and labor and delivery complications may arise at any age, having a baby at 40 and beyond can increase the risks of some of those complications.

You may have a hard time getting pregnant. The biggest downside to putting off pregnancy until your 40s is significant: It’s harder to get pregnant the longer you wait. That’s because your egg supply decreases significantly as you age, and older eggs are more likely to have chromosomal problems, raising the risk of miscarriage and birth defects.

In one study, researchers found that 40-year-old women treated for infertility had a 25 percent chance of getting pregnant using their own eggs. By age 43, that number dropped to 10 percent, and by 44 it had sunk to 1.6 percent. Among women who did get pregnant, the miscarriage rate was 24 percent for 40-year-olds, 38 percent for 43-year-olds, and 54 percent for 44-year-olds. (Using donor eggs boosts the odds of getting pregnant considerably.)

You’re more likely to have a difficult pregnancy. Pregnancy complications are another concern. In your 40s you’re far more likely to develop problems like high blood pressure and diabetes during pregnancy as well as placental problems and birth complications.

You’re at higher risk of a small or preterm baby. Women older than 40 are more likely to deliver a low-birth-weight or preterm baby. Stillbirth rates are also higher, and studies have shown that children born to older mothers may be at slightly increased risk of type 1 diabetes.

Your partner’s sperm may be older, too. Although men are physically capable of fathering children in their 60s and even into their 70s, sperm quality deteriorates with age. Older men’s sperm has a higher rate of genetic defects than younger men’s sperm. Studies have suggested links between the father’s age and genetically related conditions such as schizophrenia and autism spectrum disorder.

You could strain your finances. There are financial advantages to waiting to have children, but there may be liabilities as well. If you wait, you may to have to continue working to an older age to afford childcare, or you may end up setting aside less for retirement because you have other expenses. Additionally, fertility treatments can be pricey.

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14 Early Pregnancy Signs and Symptoms

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Pregnancy Signs. Could you be pregnant? Look out for these early pregnancy symptoms. Some of these first signs of pregnancy can show up before you even miss your period.

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Perhaps you’ve ditched birth control, started tracking your cycle and have been actively trying to conceive. You may be wondering: Are the symptoms you’re experiencing just PMS, or could I be pregnant?

Before you even take a home pregnancy test, you may get a heads-up in the form of some early pregnancy symptoms, including smell sensitivity, breast changes and fatigue. But because many of these early signs of pregnancy will be similar to symptoms you have right before you get your period, it can be hard to tell the difference.

While the only way to know for sure that you’ve got a baby on board is by peeing on a stick (then getting those results confirmed by a doctor), these early symptoms — some of which can occur before a missed period — may provide clues that you’re expecting.

When do pregnancy signs and symptoms start?

First, it’s important to note that pregnancy symptoms can crop up at different times in different people. And while some women experience every pregnancy symptom possible, others experience very few (if any) of these signs until many weeks into their pregnancies, if at all.

So with that said, here’s average pregnancy symptoms timeline, based on a typical 28-day menstrual cycle:

  • About 14 days after your last period: Conception
  • 17 or more days after your last period: Sensitivity to smell, tender breasts, fatigue, raised basal body temperature may begin
  • 20 to 26 days after your last period: Implantation bleeding, thicker cervical mucus may occur
  • 28 to 35 days after your last period: Frequent urination and mood swings may begin; missed period
  • 35 or more days after your last period: Other pregnancy symptoms may begin at any point during the first trimester.

Early signs of pregnancy before a missed period

(Before a missed period: Pregnancy weeks 2-4)

1. Raised basal body temperature

If you’ve been using a special basal body thermometer to track your first morning temperature, you might notice that it rises around 1 degree when you conceive and stays elevated throughout your pregnancy.

Though not a foolproof early pregnancy symptom (there are other reasons your temp can rise), it could give you advance notice of the big news.

2. Smell sensitivity

A heightened sense of smell is an early pregnancy symptom that makes previously mild odors strong and unappealing. Since it’s one of the first symptoms of pregnancy many women report, babies might be in the air if your sniffer’s suddenly more sensitive and easily offended.

3. Breast changes

Tender, swollen breasts and darkening, bumpy areolas are among the breast changes you might experience early in pregnancy. The hormones estrogen and progesterone deserve most of the credit (or the blame) for this early pregnancy symptom. The breast tenderness is pain with a gain, though, since it’s part of your body’s preparation for the milk-making to come.

Your areolas (the circles around your nipples) may get darker and increase in diameter. You’ll also likely start to notice tiny bumps growing in size and number on your areolas. These bumps, called Montgomery’s tubercles, were always there, but now they’re gearing up to produce more oils that lubricate your nipples once baby starts nursing.

4. Fatigue

Imagine climbing a mountain without training while carrying a backpack that weighs a little more every day. That’s pregnancy in a nutshell! In other words, it’s hard work, which is why fatigue is an early pregnancy symptom almost every mom-to-be experiences.

When you get pregnant, a huge amount of energy goes into building a placenta, the life-support system for your baby. All that can zap you of your usual get-up-and-go, and cause pregnancy fatigue shortly after you conceive.

5. Implantation bleeding

It’s possible to have light spotting and be pregnant. In fact, some newly expectant moms experience what’s known as implantation bleeding six to 12 days after conception.

Light spotting or implantation bleeding before you’d expect your period is sometimes an early pregnancy symptom signaling that an embryo has implanted itself into the uterine wall, which may be accompanied by menstrual-like cramps.

Here’s how to tell it’s implantation bleeding and not your period: Implantation bleeding is usually medium pink or light brown — it’s rarely period-red. It’s also spotty (much lighter than your period) and not continuous, lasting a few hours to a few days.

Spotting, however, can sometimes be a mid-cycle blip before your usual period, especially if you have an irregular or disrupted cycle. Mid-cycle brown discharge may also happen when you’re not pregnant because you’re reacting to a vaginal exam, a Pap smear or rough sex.

6. Changes in cervical mucus

Have you become a student of your cervical mucus? Then check it out now: If it becomes creamy and stays that way after ovulation, it’s a good sign you’ll have a positive pregnancy test.

As your pregnancy progresses, you’ll also notice increased vaginal discharge, called leukorrhea. This thin, milky-white discharge is normal and healthy, but speak to your practitioner if it appears lumpy or thick.

7. Frequent urination

Two to three weeks after conception you may notice an increased need to pee. This new gotta-go feeling is due to the pregnancy hormone hCG, which increases blood flow to your kidneys, helping them to more efficiently rid your body (and, eventually, your baby’s body) of waste.

Your growing uterus is also beginning to put some pressure on your bladder, leaving less storage space for urine and making you head for the toilet more frequently.

8. Mood swings

Yet again, blame those pregnancy-related hormonal changes for the mood swings you may be experiencing once you’re expecting. As early as 4 weeks into your pregnancy, you may feel a PMS-style moodiness; later in the first trimester and often throughout the rest of pregnancy, you could be up one minute and anxious or down the next.

Aside from pregnancy hormones running amok, your life is about to change in a big way, so it’s completely normal for your moods to go haywire. Do what you can to give yourself a break, eat well, get enough sleep and pamper yourself. 

(After a missed period: pregnancy weeks 4-9)

9. Missed period

It might be stating the obvious, but if you’ve missed a period (especially if your periods usually run like clockwork), you’re probably suspecting pregnancy, and for good reason. A missed period is one early pregnancy symptom all expectant moms experience!

10. Bloating

Having trouble buttoning your jeans? Early pregnancy bloating is hard to distinguish from pre-period bloat, but it’s an early pregnancy symptom that many women feel soon after they conceive.

You can’t blame that puffy, ate-too-much feeling on your baby yet, but you can blame it on the hormone progesterone, which helps slow down digestion, giving the nutrients from foods you eat more time to enter your bloodstream and reach your baby.

Unfortunately, bloating is often accompanied by constipation. Getting the right amount of fiber in your diet can help keep you regular.

11. Heartburn and indigestion

For many women, heartburn is a frustrating symptom that can appear sometime around month 2 of pregnancy. It’s caused by the hormones progesterone and relaxin, which relax smooth muscle tissues throughout your body, resulting in food moving more slowly through your gastrointestinal (GI) tract.

Medications like Tums and Rolaids can help, as can chewing sugarless gum.

12. Morning sickness or nausea

That telltale, queasy feeling known as morning sickness can hit you at any time of day — and it typically begins when you’re about 6 weeks pregnant, though it can vary and strike even earlier. For most women, nausea starts by week 9.

Hormones, mainly increased levels of progesterone (though estrogen and hCG can also take some credit), can cause the stomach to empty more slowly, resulting in this early pregnancy symptom resembling seasickness.

13. Food aversions

Your extra-sensitive nose may be responsible for another early sign of pregnancy: food aversions, where the thought, sight or smell of certain foods you normally like can turn your stomach (or worse, contribute to your morning sickness).

This early pregnancy symptom can be triggered by anything from chicken (a common one) to something seemingly more benign, like salad.

Though this isn’t usually one of the very first signs of pregnancy, it does tend to pop up in the first trimester. Blame those pregnancy hormones again, especially early on when your body is flooded with them and still getting used to all the hormonal changes. Don’t worry: This early pregnancy symptom often passes by the second trimester, when things have settled down in there.

14. Excess saliva

Also called ptyalism gravidarum, some moms-to-be experience saliva build-up early in pregnancy. This symptom usually starts sometime in the first trimester, and is thought to be your body’s way of protecting your mouth, teeth and throat from the corrosive effects of stomach acid.

Early pregnancy symptoms vs. PMS: What’s the difference?

Most early pregnancy symptoms before your period are strikingly similar to the side effects of PMS. However, you’ll only notice changes in your areolas (they’ll look darker, wider and bumpy) if you’re pregnant. A consistently elevated BBT and creamy vaginal discharge post-ovulation are also both relatively reliable signs of conception, but they’re certainly not foolproof.

Otherwise, the only way to know if other early pregnancy symptoms (nausea, tender breasts, fatigue, bloating, sensitivity to smell, etc.) are due to a baby or PMS is to hold out until you can take a pregnancy test.

When can I take a home pregnancy test?

Although you may start to feel early pregnancy symptoms before your period, most women have to wait for an average of two weeks from the time they ovulate for a positive home pregnancy test result. Home pregnancy tests measure levels of human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) in your urine.

This placenta-produced hormone makes its way into your urine almost immediately after an embryo begins implanting in your uterus, between six to 12 days after fertilization. You can start using most home pregnancy tests as soon as hCG can be detected in your urine — and hCG levels usually aren’t high enough to be picked up by a home pregnancy test until your period’s expected.

Can’t wait until then? Some HPTs promise 60 to 75 percent accuracy four to five days before you expect your period. Wait until your period and the rate jumps to 90 percent; wait another week and the results are 99 percent accurate.

Know that false negatives are much more common than false positives, so if the time for your period comes and goes without your monthly flow, check in with your health care provider. Either way, you’ll want to get a blood test to confirm your pregnancy status.

No matter what symptoms you’re having, the only way to know for sure that you’re pregnant is to make an appointment with your OB/GYN.

Be sure to schedule your first prenatal visit as early as you can so you can get the best care possible right from the start if it does turn out that you’re experiencing early pregnancy symptoms. And if you are expecting a baby, congratulations! You’re embarking on the journey of a lifetime.

Frequently Asked Questions

How early do pregnancy symptoms start?

Very early pregnancy symptoms may show up before you miss your period.

What are the beginning pregnancy symptoms?

Sensitivity to smell, tender breasts, fatigue, and raised basal body temperature are often the earliest pregnancy symptoms.

What are the 10 signs of pregnancy?

Ten signs of pregnancy are:

  • Sensitivity to smell
  • Tender breasts
  • Fatigue
  • Raised basal body temperature
  • Implantation bleeding
  • Changes in cervical mucus
  • Frequent urination
  • Mood swings
  • A missed period
  • Morning sickness or nausea

What does early pregnancy feel like?

You may feel very tired and have nausea, breasts that feel tender or sore, and heightened sensitivity to smell. You may also notice light spotting (from implantation bleeding). Other common early pregnancy symptoms include mood swings, frequent urination, bloating, food aversions, and excess saliva.

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How to Keep the Romance Alive When Trying to Get Pregnant

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Romance. You would think sex and conception go hand in hand, but lovemaking can begin to feel like a chore when getting pregnant becomes your priority. Here are seven ways to restore the heat.

Ovulation calendars. Sperm counts. Urinating on a test strip. Aren’t you having fun baby-making? Not! Trying for a baby can be very trying if you’re, well, trying.

Although you and your partner may be physically closer than ever, your emotional connection may take a hit with all that pressure on both of you to perform. Chances are, you’ll hit that sex-on-demand rut that many hopeful parents-to-be find themselves in when sex becomes a means towards an end (in this case, a baby) rather than a means towards a “happy ending.”

But baby-making doesn’t have to feel like a chore, even with ovulation and pregnancy kits lining the bathroom counter. Here’s how to nurture your twosome as you work to make your family a threesome.

Take a mini vacation

When you’re trying to get pregnant, sex can start to feel routine. Spice it up by switching up the location. If you’re able, sneak off to a hotel for the night. Add in a spa treatment (or give each other a massage at home) to de-stress and get in the mood. 

If you can’t get away, change the scenery by taking your lovemaking out of the bedroom — something that’ll be much harder once you have a little one around! Try the living room or the kitchen.

Watch a sexy movie

It won’t just get you both in the mood — it may actually help you conceive faster! In one study, when researchers had men watch a scene with sexual content right before doing the deed, they found that the sperm they produced was of higher quality. (Yes, really!) 

Other research has found that it can increase levels of progesterone, a sex hormone thought to increase romantic behavior.

Set the scene

Get yourself a sexy nightie, light some candles, crank up some get-in-the-mood music and let the hanky-panky begin! Or make things a little more playful with a game like strip poker or nude Twister or your favorite R-rated board game. When the lovemaking is over, spend some time cuddling. (It might increase your odds of getting pregnant — it gives the sperm time to get through your cervix!)

Spice it up

Surprise him (and maybe yourself) by doing something out of the ordinary: Invest in some sex toys, crank up the passion with something sweet (chocolate syrup, anyone?) or try a new position. Although you may have heard fertility myths that the missionary position or penetration from behind are best for babymaking, any sex position will do for conception — so try them all! 

Steer clear of lubricants and oral sex when trying to get pregnant, though — saliva and lubricants can damage sperm.

Laugh a little

There’s no question that babymaking is serious business. But if you loosen up a little, it’s not only good for your relationship — it’s one of the best ways to relax, too. 

Stream that silly comedy you were embarrassed about actually going to see in a movie theater, or catch up on old episodes of Saturday Night Live. Look for the humor in trying to conceive wherever you can, including frantic temperature checks and dashes to the bedroom. Remember, laughter’s the best medicine, and it can help you get through those first months or years after your baby finally arrives, too.

Sex up your phones

Spice up your normal texts with some suggestive messages or alluring pictures to whet his appetite for what’s on the menu tonight (hint: you). Spell out exactly what you will — and will not — be wearing, and what you want to happen. You’ll keep him in anticipation and on edge for the rest of the day.

Up the romance

Think moonlit strolls holding hands, dinner by candlelight, cuddling in front of the fireplace. Focus on the romance and see what happens next. But whatever you do, make sure you keep talking. The physical is only part of it. Stay connected emotionally by sharing your feelings about sex, conception and your future life as parents. This will take both your romance and your relationship a long way.

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How Long Does It Take to Get Pregnant?

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Pregnant. Learn how long it typically takes to conceive by age — and when it’s time to seek help from a specialist.

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You’ve decided to take the plunge into the trying-to-conceive pool. Good for you! But as you come up for air, you might start feeling a little worried. What if I can’t get pregnant? What if something goes wrong? How long will this take?

Despite what you might have been told in your middle school health class, pregnancy doesn’t happen automatically after having unprotected sex. There are several key steps to getting that bun into the oven, and each one has to go just right.

It all starts with ovulation, when your ovaries release a mature egg that’s available for fertilization by sperm. Having sex when you’re ovulating — which happens around halfway through your menstrual cycle — gives you the best chance of getting pregnant, so it’s worth getting the timing right.

Once a sperm fertilizes the egg, it slowly but surely makes its way into the uterus, all the while growing and dividing. After several days, the fertilized egg implants on the uterus wall, resulting in pregnancy.

This whole process — from sex to implantation — takes between two and three weeks. Still, as most people who are trying to conceive quickly learn, the road to getting pregnant often takes a little longer than that. Here’s a look at what you can expect.

How long does it take to get pregnant?

In general, healthy couples have a 20 percent to 25 percent chance of getting pregnant during each monthly cycle, assuming you’re having sex regularly and without contraception. (“Regularly” is considered two to three times a week.) Over the course of year, 85 percent of couples who are actively trying to get pregnant will conceive.

That’s an across-the-board estimate though, and not every individual couple’s timeline is exactly the same. Your age, overall health, reproductive health and how often you have sex all factor in to how long it will take you to get pregnant. A man’s age and health matter too, along with other factors.

How long does it take to get pregnant after going off birth control?

Wondering if your body needs time to adjust to being off the pill before you’ll be able to conceive? The answer isn’t exactly clear-cut, but in most cases, going off hormonal birth control shouldn’t throw too much of a wrench in your pregnancy plans.

Hormonal birth control methods like the pill, patch, ring or hormonal IUD all work by turning off hormone signals, mainly to stop ovulation (the release of an egg from one of the ovaries). Once you stop using this form of contraception, those hormones turn back on and you go back to ovulating. 

Most women start getting regular periods again — a sign of ovulation — within a few weeks after stopping birth control. But for others it can take up to three months, and that’s completely normal. (Good to know: Birth control shots like Depo-Provera often have a longer timeline. Most women won’t get pregnant for at least 12 to 14 weeks after their last shot, but it could take as long as a year or two.)

Just like there’s some variation in when your period will come back after stopping birth control, some women take a little longer than others to conceive. Some research shows that having taken oral contraceptives doesn’t affect a woman’s ability to get pregnant in the short- or long-term. But other research found that going off the pill is tied to a slight delay when compared with barrier methods.

What are my odds of conceiving by age?

Overall, you’ll very likely become pregnant within several months of enjoyable effort. It may happen faster if you know your cycle and learn to identify when you’re ovulating. Eating well and staying healthy can play a role, too. 

That said, age does affect your chances of getting pregnant. Healthy couples in their 20s have around a 1 in 4 chance of conceiving during any monthly cycle, while the chances for those in their early 30s are around 1 in 5. 

And while fertility does decline quickly starting in your mid-30s, your odds of having a baby are still far from nil. But the odds drop to around 1 in 10 by age 40.

How can you improve your fertility and increase your chances of getting pregnant each month?

The best way to give your body a boost in the baby-making department is to focus on your health. So make an effort to get in the best shape possible by doing things like:

  • If you smoke, quit. It’ll improve your odds of conceiving, and give your baby the best start in life when you do become pregnant.
  • Eat right. Some research suggests that certain dietary patterns can reduce the risk for infertility. Aim to eat more plant-based sources of protein and iron and fewer animal-based ones (like lentils instead of beef), choose whole grains and other sources of fiber, look for healthy sources of fat like avocado and nuts.
  • Aim for a healthy weight. Being overweight or underweight can both affect hormones involved in fertility.
  • Take a prenatal vitamin. Not only will it protect your baby’s health when you become pregnant, it could increase your odds for conceiving in the first place.
  • Make time for stress relief. Unchecked tension and anxiety can impair fertility. Try yoga, meditation or any other practice that helps you unwind. 
  • Test out couples’ acupuncture. Some research has found it may improve both male and female infertility. 
  • Have sex often. Try to get busy every one to two days if you can. More sex when you’re fertile means more chances of getting pregnant.

How long to try to get pregnant before seeing a specialist

Talk with your doctor if you’re under 35 and haven’t conceived after a year of actively trying, or if you’re over 35 and haven’t conceived within six months. At least half of couples who are evaluated for suspected infertility will end up, after treatment, with a successful pregnancy. A reproductive endocrinologist or other specialist can help determine where the problem lies and how to fix it or get around it.

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Your Preconception Checkup

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The best prenatal care begins long before egg and sperm meet up — and it starts with your preconception checkup. Before you get busy trying to make a baby, get busy making a few doctor and dentist appointments.

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You may not be pregnant yet, but the best way to care for your future pregnancy is to get a thorough top-to-bottom preconception checkup. A full-body tune-up now will make it easier to tackle health issues before baby’s on board and will help ensure your pregnancy is a safe and healthy one.

How should I prepare for my preconception checkup?

It doesn’t take much to prepare for your preconception checkup (other than actually making the appointment with your gynecologist), but there are a number of questions you’ll be asked during your appointment, so here’s a checklist of the information you’ll need to gather before you head to the doctor’s office:

  • The type of birth control you are on. Your doctor will let you know when to stop your birth control and how long you should ideally wait, if at all, before you can start trying for that baby of yours.
  • Your menstrual cycles. You’ll be asked about the date of your last period and the length of your cycles. This will help guide a discussion about your fertility and the best time each month to try to conceive.
  • Your diet and lifestyle habits. Be prepared to be asked about what you eat and whether you drink or smoke. You and your doctor will discuss ways to boost your fertility through possible diet and lifestyle changes if needed.
  • A list of the medications you currently take. Whether it’s over-the-counter or prescription, you and your doctor will discuss all the drugs (as well as vitamins and herbal supplements) you take. Depending on the medication (some are safe during pregnancy, others may not be), a change may be in the cards.
  • Any chronic conditions or medical problems you have. Any medical problems that should be treated before conception or will need to be monitored during pregnancy are important to talk about now, so have your medical history, including your mental health history, at the ready. The good news is that with the right care and precautions, most chronic conditions are perfectly compatible with getting pregnant and having a healthy pregnancy.
  • Your family history. When you’re starting a family, your family tree matters — which is why your doctor will want to check it out. Dig as deeply as you can, and write down everything you unearth, so you’ll be ready to answer the family history questions you’ll get from your practitioner. For instance, your doctor will want to know if there’s a history of breast cancer (and, depending on that answer, may recommend you get a baseline mammogram before you conceive). Your doctor will also ask about you and your partner’s family history of medical conditions (such as type 2 diabetes) and pregnancy conditions (such as preeclampsia) that might affect your pregnancy. And since multiples can run in families, be sure to share any twin trends on both your sides of the tree.

What tests and screenings will I get at my preconception appointment?

Your preconception checkup will include a lot of pre-pregnancy-specific tests and screenings, plus many of the standard screenings you’re used to from your regular annual visit. Here’s what you can expect:

  • A Pap test
  • A pelvic, breast and abdominal exam
  • Blood pressure reading
  • A weight check
  • Screening for any gynecological conditions that might interfere with fertility or pregnancy, such as irregular periods, polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), uterine fibroids, cysts, benign tumors, endometriosis or pelvic inflammatory disease (PID)
  • A urine test to screen for urinary tract infection and kidney disease
  • A blood test to check hemoglobin count (to test for anemia), vitamin D levels (to make sure you’re not deficient), Rh factor (to see if you are positive or negative), rubella titer, (to check for immunity to rubella), varicella titer (to check for immunity to chicken pox), tuberculosis (if you’re at high risk for Tb), hepatitis B titers (if you’re in a high-risk category, such as being a health care worker), cytomegalovirus titers (to determine if you’re immune to CMV), toxoplasmosis titers (if you have a cat, regularly eat raw or rare meat, or garden without gloves), thyroid function and sexually transmitted diseases  
  • A mental health screening for depression, anxiety disorder or any other mental health issue, including eating disorders, can interfere with conception and increase your risk of mood disorders during pregnancy and postpartum

What fertility tests might my doctor do?

If you’re under 35 and have no known fertility issues, there aren’t any additional tests in store for you at the first preconception checkup. But some doctors will be more proactive with hopeful moms-to-be over 35, testing their blood for certain fertility markers that could give a heads up on any potential difficulties in the fertility department.

These tests might include a blood test to check progesterone levels (testing around day 21 of your cycle can confirm that you’re ovulating), FSH and estradiol (testing for these two hormones on day 3 of your cycle can help indicate how many eggs you have in reserve in your ovaries) and AMH (testing for the anti-mullerian hormone also measures ovarian reserve). If your doctor suspects you might have PCOS, testing for other hormones such as testosterone and DHEA-S may be ordered.

What vaccines do I need to get before I get pregnant?

Even if you received a full set of vaccines as a child, it doesn’t mean you’re off the immunization hook now. Some vaccines require boosters to keep immunities going strong, and you want to make sure your immunity is top-notch before you get a baby on board. 

The blood tests you’re getting at your preconception checkup will clue your doctor in to whether or not you have all the antibodies needed to keep you and your baby-to-be healthy during pregnancy. But it’s not just about pregnancy. Since infants aren’t fully immunized against some diseases until at least 6 months, your good health and antibodies will be vital in protecting your newborn baby’s health.

Keep in mind that once you conceive, some vaccines will be off the table, so if your antibody levels are low or you have some immunization holes that need filling in, now — before your TTC campaign begins — is the time to roll up your sleeve. Here are some vaccines that might be on your preconception agenda:

  • Measles, mumps, rubella (MMR). If you’ve never been immunized against this trio of serious childhood diseases, or if testing shows your immunity wore off, you’ll need the MMR vaccine. Wait one month from the time you get the vaccine until you start trying to conceive.
  • Chicken pox (varicella). If you’ve never had chicken pox or weren’t vaccinated against it, it’s recommended that you get the varicella vaccine pre-pregnancy, and that you wait at least one month before you start trying to conceive.
  • Hepatitis B. If you’re at high risk for hepatitis B, it’s recommended that you get vaccinated against hepB. The hep B shots come in a series of three, and if you don’t finish up the series before you conceive, it’s safe to continue it during pregnancy.
  • HPV (human papillomavirus). Are you younger than 26? If yes, you should be vaccinated against HPV with the full series of three shots before trying to conceive. If you become pregnant before completing the full series, you’ll have to resume the shots postpartum.
  • COVID-19. If you haven’t gotten it yet (or you’re missing out on a booster), there’s no time like the present to gain protection. The COVID vaccine is safe and recommended for everyone 6 months and up, including women who are trying to conceive, pregnant or breastfeeding. 

During pregnancy you’ll need to roll up your sleeves for two more shots: the flu shot and the Tetanus-diphtheria pertussis (Tdap) vaccine (which should be given ideally around 27 weeks to 36 weeks of pregnancy).

Other appointments to make before getting pregnant

Smile — you’re about to make a baby! And while you’re smiling, make an appointment with your dentist. 

Though you probably wouldn’t normally associate your pearly whites with baby making, you’ll definitely want to schedule a dental checkup and teeth cleaning before you start trying. That’s because gum disease is associated with pregnancy complications such as preterm labor, preeclampsia and gestational diabetes. 

Gum disease also tends to get worse during pregnancy, so getting your mouth in shape now is a smart idea — especially since treating gum disease before pregnancy can help reduce the risk of those complications.

If you need any work done — x-rays, fillings, crowns or gum surgery, for instance — schedule it soon so you won’t have to deal with it during pregnancy. Make sure you give yourself enough time to get it all finished up before you begin trying to get pregnant.Remember, even if you’ve never had a sick day, seeing your doctor(s) and dentist for thorough preconception checkups before you start trying to get pregnant will help ensure that all baby-making systems are go and that you’re setting yourself up for a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.

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